The Value of Work
When I was growing up, I saw what the benefit of work was on a daily basis. My parents provided a safe, loving home where there were expectations of each us siblings. I am certain they wanted a better life for me and the rest of my brothers and sisters, but it certainly was not delivered to me on a silver platter.
I had what they called chores, and my reward was a small allowance (compared to the amount of money my children get for working around the house.) It was not slave labor, even though I thought it may have been at times.
Summer meant mowing the lawn, and fall meant raking of the leaves. I had the trash to take out upon request. I had to make my bed, put my clothes away and clean up my room. The houses we lived in needed painting every so often, and I got paid for the scraping and painting in areas I could reach. As I got older, I was responsible for getting meals ready for my brothers and sisters when my parents were busy. I hated to clean out the garage, but it usually ended up a family project.
The money earned was saved in jars and later in a bank account, and I looked at the statements as they arrived in the mail. I learned the value of the dollar, and how many bags of leaves had to be filled before I got a dollar. That’s a lot of leaves. I recognize what my parents and others around me were teaching me… the value of work. It was more than earning money to have to spend on things I wanted. It was a sense of a job completed to desired level.
I was taught the value of work, and I see that many families today are lacking the value of work in the home. Demands of children are met with fits of rage at times in stores. Often they are placated with a store item desired. The children begin to expect this, and schools offer incentives for better grades. As adults these expectations are recycled to a new generation who believe society owes them an existence without work. Our God is a great God, but he expects us to help ourselves to reach His glory.
Jesus once said that a person could be fed a fish and be nourished for a day. To teach that person to fish was better because then that person could provide fish not only for himself, but for others too, all year round. Children need to learn the value of work in both the way they are raised and by the examples of the parents and others around them. They learn by imitation. I strive to be a role model in the various hats I wear as a youth minister for my church. I work hard to be the father my children deserve. There is a sense of satisfaction of a job well done.
Peace be you with always,
Rev. Paul Abernathy
“Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” -2 Peter 1:2
Contact Paul Abernathy at paulabernathy@gmail.com.
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