Rent-A Friend?
I can appreciate the ingenuity, creative imagination and the entrepreneurship of those reinventing the limits of the Internet and its programs; however, one of the hottest topics on Google is a Rent-A-Friend website for those with low-friend-count on their Facebook or other social network page.
It’s not a dating or escort service, and that’s good. However, people who don’t have enough “friends” connected to their account can enter any zip code in the USA or Canada and find those who will sell their relationship. People who want the “friends,” have to become members, and that’s where they pay before connecting to the new group of acquaintances.
The Rent-A-Friend site reportedly has 100,000 hits a month, claims 200,000 members, and it has only been around for six months. Here come the knock-offs, and the trend is here to stay for a while.
Some of the youth I work with have tried this new-fangled thing, and results have been mixed. I have encouraged them to avoid this web site and others like them. It’s not that I’m an old-fashioned stick-in-the-mud, but I believe friends are friends, and it’s not hard to make friends for most people. If you have to rent them for what every reason, something’s not right. It’s also against what God has taught us, too.
I once gave a friend in my young life a quarter if he would not tell a certain girl in school that I liked her. This was when 25 cents could by 25 pieces of bubble gum. He took the money and promptly told the certain female of my interests the next day. How much would he have taken? I don’t know. How much would others charge to be a friend of a stranger? I don’t know. I do know that Jesus taught us to be fishers of men, to spread the word of an everlasting life, and we should help strangers in need of help.
Does help include renting friends to be popular on a social website? I don’t think so. An article on the topic suggested some practical uses of the Rent-a-friend website, such as a person new to a city looking for someone to show them the town, but that could be a bad situation, too. One-one one talking is the real answer to finding a friend, and that includes a prayer every now and then to Jesus.
Peace be you with always,
Rev. Paul Abernathy
“Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” -2 Peter 1:2
Contact Paul Abernathy at paulabernathy@gmail.com.
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